Relationship style quiz: 10 questions to ask each other
From texting to talking after disagreements, answer and compare together.
10 questions to ask each other
Share how you each feel about these questions. If your answers differ, use the conversation tips to find an approach that works for both of you.
How often do you like to stay in touch?
Instead of focusing on reply speed, find times to connect that work for both of you.
What sounds like your ideal date?
Take turns suggesting dates you each enjoy.
When a disagreement comes up, I…
If you take a break from the conversation, agree on a time to come back to it.
What makes you feel most loved?
Share how you naturally show affection and how you each like to receive it.
When planning a date, I…
Decide what needs a plan and where you can leave room for spontaneity.
How much alone time do you need?
Agree that needing time to recharge alone doesn't mean caring any less.
How would you like to celebrate an anniversary?
Talk about what you hope for and a budget you're both comfortable with.
How would you like to share date expenses?
Find an approach that feels comfortable for both of you.
When things get tough, what helps you most?
Ask whether your partner needs understanding or practical help right now.
How do you like to talk about your future together?
You may each feel ready to talk about the future at a different pace.
Compare your answers in the quiz
After answering 10 questions, you'll receive an invitation link valid for 7 days. Once the other person creates an account, signs in, and answers, only the two of you can see the comparison. The first person to submit answers through the link becomes your participant, so send it directly rather than posting it publicly.
The answer match rate is the percentage of questions where you chose the same answer. It is not a Ba Zi compatibility score or a psychological diagnosis. Use the conversation tips for differing answers to find what works for you. The quiz is free and does not use your free first reading.